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I know I promised 3 ways to make your pussy the juiciest in the title, and you are going to get the 3 ways, and you can choose to implement 1 or 2 or both of them, you don’t have to choose. The more the merrier.

But I also would like to add here, that there are even more ways. I was just looking for the most practical ones for you. 


These tips help you to make your vagina feel more pleasure, to clear some of the blocks (including physical ones), and to create a more relaxed state that you can enjoy alone or with your partner.


All of these tips add a lot to you sexual health and vitality as well. 



Make those pelvic muscles tight and resilient



I’m sure you have heard about Kegel exercises and strengthening the pelvic muscles already. And there is a reason for the popularity. Working out your pelvic muscles creates not “just” tightness, but also more blood flow, more pelvic presence and you are generating some energy. It is all good.

The simplest way to practice is to tighten your pelvic muscles, like you do when you want to stop the flow of pee, then relax. I personally love to play with the feeling, but you can follow a structured program here.
You can go for longer and deeper contractions, holding longer, or pulsating (lots of short, intense contraction and relaxation one after the other).


This is something you can practice alone anywhere, without extra equipment. And it is going to work.


Having a toy for it usually makes the strengthening process faster and more effective, also it is more pleasurable for some people, especially if they use balls that have moving weights inside. Like the Discretion Silicone Love Balls or the CoverMe Silicone Kegel Kit. Some people like to just wear them for the sake of the sensation. 


Some sets have different sized weighted toys, so that you can go gradually for the goods. Like the Satisfyer Yoni Power ones or the V-Balls-Kegel Set


Ben Wa Balls are usually small and not always tied together. They are only for advanced practitioners. Because, you know there is always more. :) You can just insert them and enjoy the movement of the balls. And don’t forget to wear panties too. Because they are smaller they can escape easier.

My personal favourites are the crystal yoni eggs. The different crystals hold different energies. Jade is the “classic” yoni egg. It is very powerful, durable and enhances your vitality. Rose quartz is for creating a more intimate, loving relationship with your pussy. Black obsidian is all about power and owning your dark side…

You can have eggs in different sizes. It is much better to have your own ritual about inserting and or removing them. The spiritual and energetic aspect is essential here to really have the healing effect. Yoni eggs are more about creating a more intimate connection with your pussy than about exercising.


Please always monitor how you feel about wearing any of these toys, because overexercising your muscles will have the opposite effect that you wanted. You can have cramps, or very rigid muscles feeling less pleasure. So go slow, and follow your own lead here.



Sighing out



If you only want to implement one thing from what you read here, please choose this one. It looks insignificant and not challenging enough for the mind, but at the same time it helps to deeply relax your vagina and feel renewed.


Sighing out through your pussy has the same effect on your nervous system as exhaling out slowly and consciously. You release and you feel safer. But when you consciously do this sighing out through your vagina, you will feel it strongly in your pussy in your pelvis.

How do you do that?


You focus on your pussy.

Feel her. 

Imagine you sighing out through the vagina.

You can even tell yourself “I’m sighing out any tension now.” You can even imagine the tension leaving your body and you can feel lighter and more spacious.

And focus on the aliveness that you feel.

Maybe you feel tingles. Maybe your vagina starts to shimmy, which is a sign of release, and it is highly pleasurable.

After a while just focus on the pleasure and aliveness.


You don’t need to do a whole practice all the time, but doing this every day just for a couple of minutes is going to enhance your sex life. (And you can do it any time you have to wait.)
You will feel it is easier to relax your pussy the more consistently you practice this.


The sighing out can be also used while you are having sex. Your partner will very probably feel it and find it very delicious without being able to tell what exactly feels this good.


You can also implement some sighs to your pelvic exercises for more resilience.



De-armouring your pussy



De-armouring your pussy is all about sensitising your vagina by clearing out blocks and reliving the numb spots.


While the first 2 tips are all about pleasure and elevating sensations, de-armouring is painful. It is about removing the built walls inside of you that can be physically felt. In some ways it is very similar to when you go to a massage to get rid of the knots or to a reflexologist when they use pressure on some points of your feet to create a better flow.


So de-armouring is about identifying the territories where you feel pain or numbness to pressure, and holding the pressure at these places, breathing into them until you feel a release. Maybe this happens fast. And sometimes this can only happen after lots of repetition. The pain can be sharp, like shattered glass, or as I said maybe you don’t really feel much at that place.


Because of this, please always be as gentle with yourself as you can. De-armouring requires you to prepare yourself. It can be some movement, relaxation. I really recommend doing some breast massages. It helps you to connect better.


Have some lube or your favourite yoni oil ready. Even though you can use your hand I would recommend to choose a glass dildo like the Glamour Glass Curved Big Wand, so that you can reach any point inside and give yourself the pressure that you need. Sometimes it is challenging to do this with your fingers.


Before you are ready to de-armour the vagina, massaging and de-armouring the clit and the vulva can be a good start.  


Don’t push yourself to go further than you are really ready to go. This is why you attune to yourself first, this is why you start with the vulva before you penetrate deeper. 


Breath deeply, go slowly, and give yourself time to recover. After de-armouring your vagina is super sensitive so let her recover, drink a lot of water and surround yourself with soft materials and gentleness. Meditation and journaling can also be your best friends. And please, rest.

After de-armouring you can have very vivid dreams. The block removing that you are doing purges energy and affects your emotional state. This is why aftercare is essential.


Repeat the de-armouring session whenever you need it, and you feel you are ready for the next one. It is totally normal to create and store new blocks in your vagina again. 


Feel your pussy, and give her all the presence, attention and support that you can so that you can have the most amazing experiences together.