I have already declared that I'm not against porn. I watch porn time to time and, I love sex cartoons, I read erotica and find audioerotica especially hot.
I understand the bad reputation of porn and I find lots of the porn that I come across totally uninspiring. The problem is not about watching porn, but rather if the porn you are watching serves you to have more fulfilling sex or not?
And I’m sure that you know the most mainstream porn sites with millions of videos. And Some of these videos work for you well. And probably most of it is free.
But you have other choices too. You can have porn that is real, ethical and inspiring if you look a little bit further for alternative sources.
And before I go to the recommendations I would like to say that making little changes while you watch porn can help you to stay in your body more and not create limiting patterns. Like for example changing your position (especially standing) and creating different environments or using another toy.
The more variety you create, the more you can stay in the moment.
This is important because the other side effect of watching porn is to do the same thing over and over and over again, and you loose some of your erotic potential without even realizing this because of the reinforced pattern.
And of course another source for variety is to have more options in porn.
But exactly what?
Bright Desire
Bright desire offers porn based on true connection. And it is so hot and inspiring. They’ve won plenty of awards for the art of porn you see on their site.
Lustery
Lustery is a creator based platform. You will find videos from real couples. You will find real desire and real action there.
Joybear
Joybear has been creating juicy, taboo-free, inspiring porn for almost 20 years now. You don’t have to compromise on anything. It is ethical, award wining and of course sex-positive.
PinkLabel
PinkLabel focuses on creating videos with more LGBTQ focus. If you look for inclusivity or hot sex education or “tasty” sex videos you will love them.
I wanted to mention here some of the audio options here too. Audio is especially yummy for those who have a bit more sensual and/or energetic in their erotic wiring for several reasons. The mind is more involved, there is a lot of space for a vivid imagination while the aural pleasure is high. Dipsea and Quinn have so many quality choices for you that you will feel spoiled.
So it is time for you to try something different this time. Of course you can always add a new toy for even more pleasure.