You are a unique erotic being.
Your reactions, your arousal, your presence, your drive, your dynamics, your biology, your energy is all to explore and expand.
It is a lifetime journey, where there is always something new, exciting and beautiful.
Even if it doesn’t seem like this is the case.
Even if it seems that you can’t ever have what you want. Or you can’t have enough of it.
I’m a sex coach so that I can support people in their journey to pleasure, connection and satisfaction. And I use the tools of Erotic Blueprint to see more into the dynamics and arousal patterns of my clients. And these tools help a lot to understand more what is really fulfilling to a person, what do they need more of, or less of, or how they can expand from where they are.
There are 5 Erotic Blueprints: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky & Shapeshifter. And I’m going to show you both of them, so that you can know what to look for when you are looking for ways to satisfy yourself or your partner. They are going to give you a “language” to describe dynamics, possibilities, sensations, desires and boundaries more accurately.
Let’s talk about the Sexual Blueprint - Sexuals - this time.
Sexuals are super lucky, because:
- they have a hot connection to their desires
- they know what they want and what is making them happy
- they can go from 0 to 100 within seconds
- they are very passionate
- they are happy and relaxed when they have enough sex (orgasms included)
- they have ease around sex, it is easy to talk about sex with them
But this doesn’t mean they don’t have challenges. Sexuals (so as Shapeshifters) are the most sexually craving of all people. They get very often that their libido is abnormally high. (Not just from their partners, but from society as well.)
This is hard even if you are a man. But most of my primarily Sexual clients are women. Women who are slutshamed and called abnormal, just because their erotic wiring allows them to get aroused easily and be passionate. And they come to me because they want to be more “muted” sexually.
Sexuals have to deal with lots of frustration. And this is even harder when they are not sure if they will get their orgasm or not at the end. They rather don’t start if cumming is not on the table. But when they know that they will get their orgasms, they react with all the passion that they have.
Sexuals are turned on by nudity, penetration (did I mention orgasms?:))), the juices of sex.
They are curious about sexuality, but mostly open to expanding in the Sexual blueprint realms, and don’t necessarily get what their partner's other needs are. The connectedness without even being touched of the Energetics, the need for the undisturbed and relaxing environment of the Sensual, the out of box desires of their Kinky partners or the unpredictability of the Shapeshifters can be totally mystery.
I remember sitting in an Uber in LA after a workshop about sexuality, and chatting with the driver. When she heard where I'm coming from, and what I’m doing, she shared the following:
“I don’t have any problems in my sexlife. Only my partner has.” I knew she was Sexual.
Watch my video to go a little deeper in the mind of the Sexuals, and use the knowledge to get the best of the sexual dynamics.