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Oh yes… It is a very common question: Does size really matter? And my experience about this is that sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn’t. That depends on how your penis feels to your partner. And this is very subjective. This depends a lot about your partner’s anatomy, your position and some extra factors. This is what you are going to know more about when you read this post. 



The Position



Your position can make a big difference. Which ones are the best?


  • Missionary position, when your partner’s legs are up and pressed together. The less spread the legs are, the bigger your cock can feel, because this compresses the space for your member to fill, so your partner can feel you more. I told you at the beginning, that this is very subjective with more factors.
  • Doggie style: for very similar reasons.


The Moisture Level



The more wet your partner is, the more smooth the experience is. But you don’t want a very smooth experience. You want your partner to feel your penis, feel every movement of yours, so this means that you need less moisture. I usually recommend a lot of lube, but now I recommend less lubrication (of course the environment still needs to be wet enough to be pleasurable). If your partner tends to be wet, have something around to wipe the excess moisture from your cock, and then go back. 


This was about your partner’s side, and now I’m writing about all the extra stuff that you can add to your tool box, and I start with something that does not come from a practical, touchable part.



Owning your cock



This part sounds woowoo for a lot of people, so feel free to skip and go to the practical toolbox, but I still want to write about this, because it work for a lot of people, and because I know from my experience how different sized penises felt totally different according to their energy and presence, and changing this factor is making a huge difference.


You can change your relationship to your cock, and instead of thinking about him as not big and good enough and needs to be changed you can learn how to feel it, be present in it and own it. This requires presence and energetic exercises. And you will be felt and received differently.



Making your cock bigger - practical tools



Penis pumps

 

Penis pumps force you to enlarge in both directions to expand your erection. They are perfect for practicing being in your best shape and form. 

 

Cock rings


Cock rings are simple and essential. They can help you to maximize and maintain your erection, so your partner can have the biggest version of you.

Penis sleeves


Cock sleeves are created to make your cock bigger while you wear them, and you still have all the thrusting experience. 

Some add extra length, most of them provide extra girth. They usually have extra texture in order to make your partner feel more and accentuate your every movement.

When you use a penis sleeve, you are going to lose out on the sensation. This is why some penis sleeves have extra texture inside the sleeve too so that you can have a better experience even while wearing a sleeve.

If you choose something like the Colt Slammer, the head of your penis is going to be free, so you are going to feel tight and wide and still sensitive. 

Some of them, like this one, are equipped with extra vibration to the head of your penis, to enhance your experience too.


Hollow strap ons


Hollow strap ons can provide you with an even bigger size than the slaves. They are harnessed so you have a lot of control even with a bigger size.

When you are using them you are going to feel less. You have the experience of thrusting but at the same time this is more about making your partner happy than you. 

U shaped vibrators

 

U shaped vibrators are very different in this area. These are for the pleasure of the both of you. One side of the U goes inside your partner’s vagina / anus and the other side provides extra vibration for the clitoris / scrotum. When you penetrate, you can feel the vibration, and also some part of the area is already taken by the device, so you have less to feel the space.


The Satisfyer Double Whale for example is on the bigger side regarding the insertable part, so it can be an optimal choice for you.


Extra dildos/vibrators/plug


Maybe you or your partner likes to use one or more extra fingers in order to create more fulfillment. Some dildos or vibrators can also be added for extra enhancers. 

You can even add a butt plug to create a fuller sensation in her vagina.

The Anal Special Silicone Double Penetrator for example can be used for this task as well when you want double penetration, but you can choose to have the extra dildo added to your penis too, and your hands are going to stay free so that you can do whatever you want with them. 


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