5 books to change your sex life drastically

First of all I want to say that there are plenty of amazing books that will help you to transform your sex life and live up to your erotic potential. It all depends on who you are and what you are looking for. These books can change the way you think about sex and pleasure and can liberate yourself and your partner from outdated beliefs and restrictions. It is time for you to open a new door for more orgasms and deep satisfaction.

Learning about sex from the right sources is essential. This is going to define what you and your partner will experience. Build on a true and solid foundation and expand from there into all the juicy areas of the erotic possibilities.

Dr Emily Nagoski - Come as you are: the bestselling guide to the new science that will transform your sex life

This is a myth boosting book that is brilliant to clarify so many of your questions and doubts related to sexuality and what is actually normal. It is going to change how you think about sex, arousal and your place in the middle of it. It helps you to navigate this area. This book is as amazing for beginners as for experts. Even though the main focus is female pleasure still I think it is a must read book for everyone.

Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams - The Multi-Orgasmic Man

Men have so much more orgasmic potential, and most of them don’t even know what they are missing out on. Men can be multiorgasmic too, and this is a skill that can be developed. You don’t have to agree with everything in the book in order to separate ejaculation and orgasms and allow yourself to go as long as you want, stop when you want, restart when you want and have many orgasms. 

JAIYA - Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied: A Kinky Guide to the Best Sex Ever

This book can be an amazing mentor if you want to dip your toes into kinky play but don’t know how to start. It can be especially useful for couples where one person is kinky and they are trying to find a way to navigate this in a way that can work for both parties. 

The book has practical guides, tips, techniques and also lots of personal stories about who the author and her partner navigated their induction into kinky play. 

Betty Martin, DC - The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent

This book is very different from all the sex books on the market. However this is foundational work, still those who will love this book are probably on a more conscious level in their sex lives. They are not looking for tips or techniques, but deepening intimacy and opening their presence for more connection and liberation. This book will blow your mind and what you will discover you won’t be able to unsee anymore. 

Jack Morin - The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfilment

This is an older book about desire and arousal and how emotions like anger, anxiety or guilt can work like an aphrodisiac. Jack Morin’s work opened the door to a more honest way to discover the hidden dynamics of desire, and help to navigate them. His case studies about different erotic dynamics (including troublesome turn-ons) and tools will help you to create a satisfying and passionate sex life. 

Come with an open mind to the arena of sexual learning and you will become more confident and capable to unleash your erotic potential. 

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