Guest Blog Post by Jack P
We all masturbate, but some of us enjoy it far more than others. Women in particularly are always being told about the next best way to pleasure themselves, but men are often left behind in the stone ages.
If you’re still doing things ‘manually’ then there are plenty of ways that you can spice things up in the bedroom, living room or bathroom, to make it much more enjoyable.
Masturbation is a healthy and enjoyable experience, but it can be even better.
What Most Guys Do
When most guys want to pleasure themselves, they head to a porn website and start going at it. No preparation, no masturbators and probably not even any lube.
This seems to be a cultural problem.
Female sex toys have become more mainstream. We see them in movies, on TV and in books, but it’s still frowned upon for guys to try and make pleasuring themselves more enjoyable.
Well, forget the noise. There are plenty of ways that you can improve your solo sessions and there’s no reason why it’s any weirder than your female friends using a vibrator.
Taking the Time to Prepare and Enjoy It
The biggest improvement to your solo masturbation is likely to come by preparing for it and taking the time to enjoy it. This isn’t a race, you don’t need to rush to finish and then put your pants back on.
Just like you integrate foreplay into sex (hopefully!), you should work up gently by letting yourself get erect and playing with yourself before you start going at it.
Secondly, a little bit of and some tissues close by are crucial. Lube is a seriously underrated invention, it will help you to reduce the friction, which might seem counter-intuitive, but that’s because you’re thinking from the point of finishing quickly.
By taking your time and reducing the friction in each stroke you can last longer and build up slower. This is going to give you more control over when you climax, which is crucial if you want to have a truly mind-blowing orgasm. One word, edging.
What on Earth is Edging?
If you’ve never heard of edging then tonight is probably going to be a fun night for you. Edging is the practice of bringing yourself close to the point of climax and then stopping, over and over again.
This allows you to enjoy the stimulation of masturbation (or sex), without finishing so quickly. But more importantly, it builds up the climax which means that when you do finally orgasm it’s usually much stronger and more enjoyable.
Most of us will find edging much easier if we are using lube, because you can have greater control, preventing you from accidentally finishing.
With the basics out of the way, let’s turn our attention to masturbation toys. These are the penis equivalent of dildos, they are designed to replicate sex, whether anal, vaginal or oral.
In most cases these toys consist of an inner sleeve which is made from silicone and is covered in bumps and ridges that will stimulate you. On the outside, there is often a solid plastic casing which you can hold. Simple.
You might have heard of Fleshlight, they are the most famous and most popular producer of male masturbators, but they aren’t the only game in town.
The original Fleshlight is now available as either Fleshlight or FleshJack, a female and male version.
They are often highly recommended because the quality of the products is outstanding, making them long lasting as well as pleasurable and body safe.
But the most important part of the is the replaceable sleeve. Each of the sleeves has a completely different feeling, meaning that you can swap them out and enjoy a different experience each evening.
Another option is the , our bestselling male masturbator, and Japan’s number one male sex toy.
The is comparable to the Fleshlight/FleshJack in that it consists of an inner silicone layer that is covered in tight bumps and ridges that will rub on you with each stroke. But the really great part is the air hole that you can cover to create that wonderful sucking feel.
Have no doubt about it, this thing is tight and it’s sure to be an enjoyable experience.
Whichever you choose to buy, know that you’re about to open up your world. These toys are far more enjoyable than doing it ‘manually’ and are as close as you can get to sex by yourself.
Your prostate is a gland that is found between your bladder and your penis, it releases fluid that helps to protect your sperm, but it’s also simple to stimulate and can result in mind-blowing pleasure.
Most men will at some point feel jealous of women, after all, they seem to have much more enjoyable orgasms thanks to the power of their clitoris. But that’s likely because those men haven't found the joy of prostate stimulation yet.
Rest assured, properly stimulating this gland can leave you shaking.
The prostate can be most easily stimulated through your anus, only a few inches inside. Prostate toys can be find in two primary options; plugs and vibrators. The first is designed to offer more mild stimulation and stretching, while the second will properly stimulate the gland.
Both can be extremely pleasurable and each has a time and a place to be used.
Our bestselling plug is the which comes in either a small or large size, making it a great fit for everybody. With a strong tapered shape, it should be easy to insert, with a little lubrication, and will stay put until you’re finished.
But if you’re looking to up your game and try a prostate massager, which we would strongly recommend, then you need to try the . This little guy will blow you away.
On one side, you’ll find a tight but comfortable cock ring that will keep you harder and for longer, while the other end is a vibrating massager the will stimulate your prostate. This thing is no joke.
It’s our Staff Recommended prostate massager for a reason, because it delivers waves of pleasure that ‘manual’ masturbation can’t come close to. Treat yourself, you deserve it.
This article has been guest plogged by Jack P.
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