Your September Pleasure Challenge - SexCoach Blog

This challenge is just for you. You can share the details of it of course with your partner(s) if you want, because it can be useful. But all of this is only after you do the challenge, and it is your choice if you share it altogether or some parts or some realisations of it. 

I know this looks super easy, but this doesn’t mean that it isn’t valuable.

Here it is: Imagine your best, most satisfying day ever from waking up to falling asleep at the end of the day. This day is all about what would feel good to you, nothing else matters.

Allow yourself to be free of all expectations, agendas or even limitations. This is all imaginary, you don’t have to make it happen, you don’t have to share, it is all for you.

It can help to realise what you want deep down, and whatever comes up, it is all ok.

Don’t judge yourself. 


Maybe you will have lots of sex or no sex at all.

Maybe you will only receive pleasure or maybe you only want to give

Maybe you will have a partner or several or it will be only you

Maybe you will want a very kinky day, lots of variety of sensual indulgence

Maybe it is all fast paced or it is slow and spacious


How do you behave when you are totally free with no judgement?

And if you can’t decide about just one day, it is ok to have several.

Everything that comes up, when you are the only one looking shows something about you to you. This means that you can make decisions in the future that are more aligned with you knowing something true and real about you.

Fulfilment and satisfaction doesn’t come from “just any kind of pleasure”, but from the pleasure that is aligned with you, so knowing yourself is the foundation to build and grow from in an authentic way.


And this is for now. Maybe doing this challenge later on, your best day will be a little or much different.


Let’s try it, and see what you will be more aware of.

 

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