Your erotic potential is way more than what you can think as possible for you. Most people don’t even explore the half of it, mostly because their inspiration is coming from porn. Exploring with an open mind is a journey of ups and downs, and when it is about nipples this is even more true.
Nipples can be tricky. Lots of people think their nipples are not sensitive enough. Men especially tend to think that their nipples have no importance at all, and find numbness normal.
Some people’s nipples tend to be very sensitive, so they haven’t been touched in a way that is pleasurable for them before. They can also experience pleasure and nipple orgasms with experimenting.
But what can you do in order to unleash your nipple’s erotic potential?
Connect to your nipples
It is hard to experience pleasure, if you can’t feel your nipples and your area around it. This part is often overlooked, because it looks too simple, while at the same time people don’t actually know what this means.
It means that you are able to have your attention on your nipples and stay present with whatever sensations you feel. Even if you feel nothing. You acknowledge that you feel nothing and stay there.
It is easier to do this if your hand is on your breast area. Do this with 1 nipple a time first, not both of them together. Believe it or not, 2 nipples can feel totally different. When your attention wavers, bring it back to the area. This is a practice, there is nothing that you “should” feel. Whatever it is, this is where you are at the moment. This doesn’t define how much pleasure you are going to be able to feel later on. Just allow the presence and come back to it.
This doesn’t need to be long. 1 or 2 minutes a time is perfectly fine. And if you feel like doing something (strokes, scratches, pinches, cupping the breasts…) then feel free to act on it. Maybe you will like the feeling, maybe you won’t. It is all ok.
Massage regularly
Massaging the breasts help to physically wire the area for more. This is presence and action together. Facilitating a good blood flow around the nipples can help with making a stable foundation for more pleasure. This part is neutral. You don’t need to aim for pleasure (you can if you want to.)
Integrate your nipples in your pleasure circle
This is something different from the previous options. Do this when you are in pleasure. This can be masturbation or when you have a partnered encounter. When you feel pleasure, focus on your nipples and breasts for a bit. Then return to the “nipple-less” pleasure. Do this from time to time and your body becomes more comfortable with nipple pleasure.
With time spend more and more time with your nipples involved.
If you aim for nipple orgasms, then just before your “usual” climax, stop and continue with “only” nipple play. Don’t expect to orgasm, “just” allow to feel whatever. You can always get back to your classic orgasmic journey.
Pleasure map your nipples
Nipples can enjoy different things. Maybe they love super subtle touches or even “only” hoovering above them (especially if you are sensitive), vibrations, stimulating or temperature gels, blows, velvety or silky materials, pinches, slight scratches, cupping, kisses and licks, sucking toys, warm oil, nipple clamps…
The more you know, the better your options are.
Enjoy this new, erotic journey and all the bliss that comes with it.
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