Your May Pleasure Challenge

You are enough to experience the height of pleasure, to have mind-blowing sensations, to expand sexually, to indulge your senses… and I could continue, and if you read my posts, you also have some more ideas.

You are wired for pleasure, and discovering your erotic potential can be an amazing (and life long) journey. This month’s challenge wants to support you in your own discovery for more pleasure, more confidence and more possibilities.

Yes, I didn’t promise orgasms, even though many of you will very probably experience a lots of them, but this months is about all kinds of highs, not “just” orgasms, so if you're one of those who are struggling with orgasms, this challenge can be equally fulfilling for you. 


What should you do this month?


Do this challenge alone

I know this can be difficult for you, but I still ask you for this. Being free from “distraction” “good” or “bad” and experiencing only yourself is something else. You can still masturbate with partners if you want to, not “all” of the self-pleasure has to be about this challenge. 

 

Have an intention

Very probably all of you are different. Some of you masturbate every day, some occasionally, and it is all good. Some of you are more sensual, some of you are more kinky, some of you use toys, so it is up to you to choose your intention. But of course I will give you some ideas.


Exploring and pleasuring a different part of your body than usual

Going slooooooooover and lighter

Masturbating in different positions

Trying a new sex toy

Edging yourself (pleasuring yourself close to coming, but stop before the point of no return at least 2 times before cumming)

Make your self-pleasure about pleasure, and not about the final orgasm. Try to be present longer

Try to allow yourself to have longer orgasms

If you tense for an orgasm try to relax into it instead

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If you don’t feel like any of these, answer the question: 

What do you want to have more of in your self-pleasure? And choose your intention accordingly. It is perfectly fine to have more intentions or create some cards with intentions and pick one blindly/randomly. As long as you try something new or different you are on the right path.

The important thing is to make your self-pleasure different from your usual pattern. You don’t have to change everything, but also give new experiences for your nervous system, so that you can expand rather than become more and more restricted.

Disclaimer: It is totally normal to feel like your new way of self-pleasure is not as hot as you want it. When you change something that has a huge part in your masturbation pattern, your mind is looking for the familiar first, and doesn’t necessarily allow you to relax into something new. This is temporary, and helps your erotic self to become more open and resilient with time.

Have a hot, juicy and very fulfilling month and enjoy the freedom and new inspiration. :)

 

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