Top 5 - Whips & Spankers
A little bondage play can add a little edge and spice you your intimacy play and introducing a bit of spanking or whipping might just do it for you.
1. Sensation, Baby!
Ever heard the phrase “it hurts so good”? That’s kind of the idea here—except it doesn’t have to hurt. Whips and spanking tools are great for exploring a mix of sensations, from gentle taps to a playful sting. That contrast can heighten your partner’s sensitivity, making every touch feel like fireworks. Think of it like seasoning your favorite dish—just a pinch can make it amazing!
2. Teamwork Makes the Dream Work
Using these tools requires some real communication. Before you dive in, you’ll need to chat about boundaries, comfort zones, and safe words. This level of trust and openness can actually bring you closer as a couple. Plus, knowing you’re both on the same page makes everything feel safer and more fun.
3. Keep It Fun and Flirty
Whether it’s a silky feather whip or a leather paddle, these devices can bring a playful vibe to your intimate moments. Think less Fifty Shades of Drama and more, “Hey, this is fun!” It’s about laughing, experimenting, and finding out what makes you both tick.
4. Unleash Your Inner Rockstar
For some, using these tools is about stepping into a different role—maybe it’s the confident “in charge” version of you or the one who loves to let go and be pampered. Either way, it’s a chance to express yourself in new ways and connect on a whole new level.
The golden rule? Consent, respect, and a sense of humor. If it’s not a heck yes for both of you, leave it for another time. But if you’re curious, why not whip things up? You might just discover a new favorite way to connect!
So if you are still reading here are 5 options that might just tickle your….
Fetish Submissive Flogger - Vegan leather and wonderfully luscious. Go as gentle as you wish with each strand and caress a pleasure. Great quality and the perfect size and weight to deliver the heat.
Sei Mio - You're All Mine - Impression Spanking Paddle - A little more hardcore fantasy play options here with this beautifully made vegan leather paddle. With a little more force you can leave a lasting impression with this paddle.
Crop Red Heart by Bad Kitty - Fantasy riding crop to keep you in control. Light and satisfying with a love heart with every sting.
Sei Mio - Roundly Chastised - Broad Circular Spanking Paddle - Maximum Impact for a full bodied response. Either gentle strokes or more stunning impacts you have the control to deliver the pleasure.
Sei Mio - Slap and Tickle - Dual Ended Crop Tickler - It should not be all about pain a little caress and tickle can also feel wonderful. Dual ended Crop with a light feather tickler at one end with the other ready to slap and delightfully sting.