Your April Pleasure Challenge

The popular belief is that talking dirty is sexy and it always works, but what if I say, this is not always the case (even if this is what you can see in every porn)? 

Some people are turned on by soft and sensual language.

Some people are able to receive pleasure when they feel sacred and protected.

Humiliating language can be the hottest for some people.

And combining these styles can be The real hit for others…

Yes, there are even more options, but this doesn’t mean that this has to be complicated. I’ve just made this list in order to show you there are so many ways for arousal, and “just” because your ways are different, you are still a sexy beast or pure light or a fucking whore or whatever… It is all as valid. 

The challenge for this month is to find the turn on (and off) words for you

You can do it at mostly one sitting or whenever an option comes to your mind.

Most people like to start making a list where they write down any word that comes up. Read them then say them out loud and check inside to see how you feel about them. 

You can rate the word on a scale of 1 to 5, but even “just” finding out which words are super hot, ok or a turn off can be one of the best things you have ever done for your sexuality.

Knowing how to talk to your partner or even yourself about your pleasure in a way that works is delicious and puts you at ease.

When I say making a list I mean including genitals, actions, hot compliments, whatever comes up.

For inspiration you can use erotic fiction, conversations, web content… You can always add to the list when you find something hot.

AND

It is equally important to know what your turn off words are. Because sometimes even 1 turn off word can be enough to ruin your mood. 

It is ok to do this challenge to the extent you are comfortable with, and add to it whenever a word or expression comes up.

If you share this challenge with a partner it can be a playful way to create your own sexy language together. 

I hope you will enjoy this challenge, and it ignite your sex life to have the juiciest, most satisfying orgasms.