Start to organize the hottest Valentine’s Day now | PlayBlue Ireland Blog

First of all this post is for those who want to create a hot and memorable night. I don’t want to convince anybody that you should love Valentine’s Day. It is up to you. To be honest these tips can help you to create a juicy night any other date, but the romantic environmental effect can accentuate your effort a bit. 

Start planning now

Being spontaneous is amazing, if you are lucky, resourceful (financially, physically, emotionally) and very creative. But when you plan ahead you have amazing chances to create something hot to remember. Yes, it is more work, but the reward is totally worth it.

And yes, there is no guarantee that it will all work as you intended it too, still sometimes even the thought, planning and energy shows how much you value your connection. 

When you plan ahead and think about what you need, and you create a “container” for the night that contains the building blocks for the date. The time frame, the physical space, the nourishment, the tools… so that you can let go of all the worries and problems for that time, and feel being seen, wanted, appreciated, valued. 

So think through what would serve you and your partner the most, and start planning accordingly. If you need reservations, reserve. If you need toys, bring them clean and fully charged. If you need babysitters, you organize them… The more you can think through what can cause problems and take care of them better the more freedom you can experience. 

And what would feel good to experience. What do you need for that? What do you want to achieve?

Start realising the plan step by step. I'm not saying that you need to plan every minute and try to control every outcome, but to create a playground that is safe and allows you to do what you want, because you don’t have to worry about circumstances.

Add a little bit of mystery

Don’t tell all the details to your partner, just as much as they need to know. Let them guess. But of course you can add instructions or basic details. Like for example what to wear. If they are open you can choose their outfit. If this is not their thing, you can “just” add the style. Like romantic or adventurous or dark or comfortable or sexy… If they think that they are prepared they can focus more on what is going on between you two (three?).
The fact that you have a plan, creates safety and opens the door for playfulness. 

Create an obstacle 

I know, I was talking about how to take care of all the problems beforehand, and now I'm asking you to create one? There is a difference between the mundane challenges, problems of everyday life and a sexy obstacle. Teasing, longing and taboo can be super arousing. Just like a game, the things that you can and can’t do create the dynamics for a new adventure. 

Introduce some novelty

Adding something new makes your night even more memorable. What would make this night even better for you and your partner? Would it be a dynamic, a toy, a new technique, a new place, a new fantasy… 

Let yourself be inspired and create a plan so that you can enjoy your date night to the fullest.