Sex for 1 - Satisfying your erotic cravings

Your body is a pleasure instrument. You are wired to feel, wired to be raptured. Even when you don’t have a partner or you don’t get the satisfaction that you are craving for from your partner. You can have the juiciest orgasms. You can give yourself fulfilment.

How?

The more you know about yourself and your erotic wiring and preferences, the more satisfying your sex life for 1 is going to be.

You are going to see lots of options and questions here. What do you find the most inspiring?

 

Allow yourself to play and experiment

Who of you had learned how to self-pleasure authentically?

And how about finding your unique ways for the juiciest, most fulfilling pleasure?

Self-pleasure is usually more than masturbation. It is about allowing yourself to feed your sexual cravings. It is about experiencing your erotic self and expanding your orgasmic possibilities. It is about attuning to your deepest desires.

Plan for pleasure

Give yourself the time and place that you would give to your lover. If your lover deserves it, you deserve it too. It is not a preparation for something better later, but to enjoy the here and now.

I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be spontaneous. You can have your quickies too. But have special times with yourself. 

Maybe that is lighting some massage candles, having a romantic set-up...

Maybe that is wearing your sexiest, kinky harness...

Maybe you can put that throbbing music on that is making you feel so alive and sync your vibrator with it through the app.

Maybe you need the vinyl sheet on the bed so that you can indulge in squirting without worrying about wetting the bed.

Maybe it is time to try out a new position.

Maybe edging yourself long enough is going to allow you to have the most mind-blowing orgasm you have ever had.

Maybe give yourself the place to be as loud as you have always wanted to be.

Maybe a blindfold is making your self-pleasure more interesting...

Allow yourself to enjoy your fantasies, your body, your senses, your environment, your toys...

Find the toys that are working the best for you

It is not always so obvious which toys are going to be the most satisfying for you. It is about experimenting, finding out what your body likes the best.

Do you prefer textured dildos or plugs?

Want to try prostate play? Start here…

Choose the rabbit vibrator for you.

Enjoy your new glass dildo.

Which one do you prefer vibrating or non vibrating cock rings?

What is the best dildo size and shape for you?

When was the last time you checked out the male masturbators?

You deserve the best toys.

Oh, and of course you need lube. Don’t forget about choosing the right one.

Learn about your map of arousal

If you follow this blog, you find posts about the Erotic Blueprints and Touch Skills so that you can enrich your erotic toolbox and find out what it is that really make your heart pump faster and your heart boil. Or maybe you prefer enjoyment rather than excitement?

Does your body enjoy light touches or contouring touches?
What kind of sensory play does feel the best for you?
What if your body prefers vibrations through some materials rather than directly on your skin?

This is all about experimenting and knowing yourself on a whole new level.

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Indulge into erotic play that really works for you. You deserve all the juicy, deeply satisfying pleasure and you can have it.