Do you want more intimacy?

It is one of the best feelings to be aroused and turned on. When you can act on it you feel alive and excited. Of course you want more of it. So here are 5 ways to have better, more frequent intimacy.


Create hot occasions instead of waiting for them to magically happen


Spontaneous, hot sex is juicy and amazing, but this doesn’t mean that planning and or consciously creating time for pleasure is boring. Just because you organize and put energy into intimacy it doesn’t need to become a chore.
The more you can do this from excitement and desire instead of because you think you should, the more free and alive you feel. 


Kiss longer


Did you know that kissing longer than 6 seconds can start your engine? The body needs time to feel what is happening. And long kisses make you feel more connected. It is not just a peck on the mouth. No routine. Really put yourself into the kissing for more than a moment, and give your body time to respond.


Loose all agenda and “just” connect for the safe of connection more frequently


When I say let your body respond, it means allowing yourself and your partner to feel whatever comes up. When you don’t pressure or try to make things happen, there is ease between you instead of tension. Like when you kiss longer, enjoy that kiss regardless if it will lead for more at that moment. Actually yearning for more is a good thing.
When you are allowed to feel whatever comes up and you can embrace that, you create the bandwidth for more, because you are flexible, open and relaxed.


Don’t go 0 to 100 and expect the same speed from your partner


Some people can become aroused from one second to the other. Others warm up to it. They need to feel safe and relaxed. They first dip their toes into pleasure and if it feels right they submerge deeper and deeper. Their way to arousal is as valid and delicious as the fast way. 
If you know this, you don’t worry about if you are good enough or if there is something wrong with your partner, and you can use this freedom for much better things.


Learn more about your and your partner sexual needs


Wherever you are in your sexual journey there is always more to learn. Being curious and exploring, creates even more sex and mind-blowing pleasure. Taking risks, trying to make each other happy, knowing that you have just discovered something new about each other creates safety and connection. The more you know about yourself the easier it is to make your sex life hotter and more fulfilling. The more you know about your partner and explore together, the more connected you can be. No matter how long you know your partner, there is always more to them. And the mystery part will keep your connection more alive.

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