Dildos are with us for ages. The oldest dildo was made of stone and it is around 28.000 years old. (So yes a good material can last a long time for sure.) Even today, dildos are at the top of the most popular adult toy list. They come in several shapes, sizes, textures, colours and materials… so that we can get the right one for us, because penetration feels amazing.
But what makes a dildo to be the right toy for you?
The length
Of course one of the main features to decide about is the size. I would always recommend checking the measurements before you get a new dildo. And when I say measurements the factor that is super important is the insertable length. Some brands define the size of the dildo by insertable length and some use the whole length so the balls and suction cups are also added to the length.
The girth
This is less obvious because most dildos come in different shapes creating even more stimulation, which makes the selection of these toys so remarkable.
The shape
Even though penis shaped toys were the original “dildos”, nowadays they come in different shapes, not “just” in realistic ones. So that whatever you feel like using you can have it. This is why you can have curved ones for better G-spot or prostate stimulation. You can have a dragon or unicorn one for your fantasy play, they can be more cone shaped…
The texture
Some dildos are smooth and this is how we want them to be, but most of them have ribs, ridges, beads in order to create different experiences. Some people love smoother anal dildos and more textured ones in the vagina, but it also can be the other way around. It is all about playing around and seeing how you feel.
The material
When it is about penetration, safety is essential, so the dildos that are on the market today have to comply with regulations in order to give you a safe experience.
Gel/Jelly dildos are liked for their softness. They are squishy and comfy, also they usually come in a variety of colours. Also they tend to be the most porous of all of the materials, so we would recommend to only use waterbased lube with them.
Silicone dildos can be very different from toy to toy. Some are on the softer side, and some are a bit on the harder side. Nowadays a new generation of dildos gains more popularity, and these are the dual density dildos. They have a harder core in order to give stability and holding but the outer part is made from a softer material in order to make it more comfortable.
Glass dildos
Most people are scared of glass dildos. But these are made of borosilicate glass, which makes them super durable. They won’t “just” accidentally break while you are using them.
They are harder than the silicone and jelly dildos, so if you have spots that love firmer stimulations (like the prostate and the G-spot for example) glass can be the perfect choice. They are also favoured to pleasure the cervix - firmness and gentleness (like slow speed or being held at one place) provide the perfect combination.
Most glass dildos are also textured for more stimulation.
You can also warm them up beforehand or cool them down (of course always check if the temperature is safe for penetration).
Also you can use silicone lubes as well with glass dildos, and it is also easier to clean and sanitise them.
Steel dildos
Steel dildos are going to serve you for a lifetime safely, but in many ways they are similar to glass dildos. They are firm, easy to clean and sanitise, you can also play with their temperature as well a bit. But on the other hand they are heavier than their glass alternatives. Which can be a plus or a minus according to your preference. They are also the most expensive of all of the above mentioned materials.
Balls and suction cups
All dildos have 2 ends and while for some people the base is not important for others it is. If they have a suction cup you can stick it to a smooth surface.
The base can also make the dildo suitable for a harness or not.
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Some people love to feel the balls and some don’t. So please consider these features as well when you choose your next one.
This is why you see so many different options, not to overwhelm you, but to make sure you get what you are looking for.