Become an irresistible kisser | PlayBlue Ireland Blog

Kissing seems to be the most natural thing. There is nothing complicated about it. Still the memory of some kisses make your lips tingling and it is almost like you could feel them again, and some kisses make you cringe.

What does actually make a difference? 

I have some tips for you so that you can become an irresistible kisser, but I have to add here that the main difference is not necessarily a secret technique or a special tongue flick, that you have to memorize and practice over and over again, but it is…

Ignite the deep craving

Kissing is a form of penetration, so your partner’s eagerness and longing will ignite the fire of playful aliveness. So start slow and tease your partner. Compliment their lips. Show your desire to kiss, go closer, but hold back. Make them feel every second of this burning craving for you.
This is not “only” for the initial part of the kissing, but hold back from time to time, make small breaks and feel the desire building up and up and up.

Be sensual

When your lips finally meet, taste your partner and enjoy them to the fullest. Allow yourself to feel the plump softness of their lip, the heat of every sigh and moan. Inhale them, make them yours. Use the strokes of your breath, the tip of your playful tongue, the tantalizing gentleness of your lips. Be slow. And don’t go deep yet. This is all feeling them and feeling yourself enjoying every aspect and moment of it. Lick a little. Suck a little. And show them how much you love kissing them.

Give space to them, and allow yourself to connect

Every kiss is a connection. And yes, sometimes it is all about you exploring deeper and dominating the play, and you can feel that this is what they want. But when you are able to feel the flow and energy of the kiss, you can feel when something is a turn on or if something is off. Maybe your partner wants to kiss for a while. Giving them space and allowing them and yourself  to be playful with the dynamics will create a strong foundation for more.

When you realize that something is off and you stop, coming from a place of acceptance you open the gate to become better. The way you are present and the openness that you can create together builds trust and safety. You are going to be able to feel more pleasure and enjoy more, so will your partner.