3 tips to know how to satisfy your partner without asking them about it
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You want your partner to feel so satisfied that they can’t stop smiling and thinking about your last time, but how can you get there, especially when they can’t or won’t tell you what to do?
Breath with them to synchronise
This first tip may sound odd at first. You want to know what they want in bed and how can breathing with them help with this? When you are able to be present with them and feel where they are at the moment, you will realize when things will change. This is the best place to be for sex, being present for yourself and still able to feel your partner. Breathing the same way they do, both of you feel safer and more connected.
Match their intensity
Maybe your partner wants something slow and gentle or maybe they want the opposite. Their breathing, their pace, their touch will show you what they are into. And this can change as time goes by. Maybe they start slower, with lighter touches, longer exhales, but after some time they pull you into them, start breathing faster, their body opens up, they become louder (or more quiet). You can ride this wave, when you can feel where they are at the moment and act accordingly.
See what happens when you hold back?
Be curious and check what happens when you step back a little bit. Create some distance, or stop for a second and see their reaction. Do they reach out for you? Do they try to get closer? Do they ask for more? Here is your yes sign.
Of course check-ins are important, and you can always ask if something feels good, but checking the reaction of their bodies is also a good way to see which direction is the best.
And if they are not into more at the moment, you can have a pause and see how you want to continue. Sometimes this little pause and the willingness to stop is enough to make your partner want to continue.
There is a lot you can do if you learn to listen to what they are communicating without saying a word. And no, I’m not saying that you won’t talk, just that you have lots of tools to connect, listen and understand, so that you can have the juiciest, most satisfying sex.