Who doesn’t want to have even better sex? Most of us want more orgasms, more pleasure, more satisfaction… But this doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to overwork yourself or become somebody that you are not. Here are 3 tips to make your sex life steamier than ever, even if you don’t have a partner at the moment.
What about adding a stimulating lube?
Lube is essential, but it doesn’t need to be boring. Add a lube with a little extra to make things more interesting. Maybe something with a bit of flavour, or a cooling, warming or tingling?
One of our favourites is the Amoreane - Liquid Vibrator - Cherry. It tastes like cherries, and tingles intensively. Perfect for oral sex, and you will feel your mouth coming alive. But of course you don’t have to stop here.
What about some sexy limitations?
Most people don’t think about limitations as sexy, but they can be the juiciest, steamiest trick for even more pleasure.
When I say limitations, it can be bondage, edging, withholding, challenges, taboos and rules. When you can’t have something, you want it even more. Tell yourself or your partner that you are not allowed to have an orgasm, and you are feeling more aroused than ever (if you struggle with orgasms, sometimes this is the tip that moves the needle for you).
A blindfold will keep you more in the present moment, than forcing yourself to focus.
Restraints can help you to surrender and “just” feel.
When you are told that you can’t use your hands, you are naturally going for skills that you have never known you had.
I think you know what I mean. Whenever you opt for a limitation you activate more resources for pleasure.
Go slower to savour the moment.
The faster you go, the more automatic things will be. When you slow down, you feel more. I know that “faster and deeper” are “advertise” as more pleasure, and while sometimes this can be the case, most of the times when you slow down, you are more aware of what is happening in your and your partner’s body. And when I say slower I also mean to stop sometimes and step back a little, so that you can feel the longing kicking in. Wanting more is sexy.
Enjoy.
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