5 types of sex toys to gift when you are not totally sure
Finding a sexy gift that makes your person happy and inspired and not disappointed can be tricky, but with the right help you can be confident in how your gift will be received.
I’m here to help you with these recommendations. The reason I recommend categories rather than exact products is that everybody is different. This is going to be a guide that will show you the direction to find the best fit for your specific person.
Gift sets
The best part of giving a gift set is that there are more toys in it, so your person is going to have options. Even if they don’t like everything it is more probable that they will find something(s) that they are really into.
You can have gift sets that are made for male pleasure, female pleasure, for couples, bondage, bdsm, for more sensual play… So your task is “just” to decide on the direction.
Games
I know, I know games are only for couples, so this is not a gift for a solo friend. Still for others they can be the perfect choice. Just as gift sets, games can guide you into different directions. They are all about playfulness, experimentation and inspiration without being pushy. Most games also create an amazing chance for communication.
Some games like the Oral Fun Game are shorter and more simple, some like the Discover your Lover Kinky version are perfect for beginners and advanced kinksters too. The Monogamy is a safe choice for a couple… Look around and choose the right topic for you.
The “1 step further” gift
If you know a bit about the toys of the receiver you have a bit of a knowledge about what they like. The 1 step further gift can be a premium version of what they have, or a similar thing but with more function or stronger vibrations.
If the person doesn’t have a toy yet, start with something simple or classic/universal. This can be as simple as a blindfold or a massage oil. Can be a bullet vibrator like the Spring 10 Speed Bullet one or a more universal like the Oh My Gem - Classy Garnet.
A sensual, smaller wand like the Rosy Gold - Nouveau Curve Massager is also a perfect choice, but if they already have one, the LeWand or the Lelo Smart Wand can be a really spoiling gift.
A first male masturbator can be a Fleshlight, like the Stamina Training Unit. If you want to give a non gendered toy, Tenga masturbators can be amazing.
AI is always a good function add on. The BlowCast is a mind-blowing premium toy, so is the Handy.
App based toys are the hottest gifts if the gift receiver is in a long-distance set-up. Anything that supports building a juicy connection can be incredibly satisfying.
A sensual person can enjoy a gourmet chocolate body paint like the High On Love - Dark Chocolate Body Paint.
Extras
Extras are not necessarily big things, they can be perfect as stocking filler or added to another gift to make it even better.
Do you want to give more orgasms? Maybe choose the Orgie Orgasm Drops?
Maybe a cocktail flavoured lube like the Sex on the Beach is the right, delicious choice.
Do you want to vibe together? The Sexy Vibe Liquid Vibrator or a tingling lube can be that extra that you have always needed. Do you want to go the extra mile? Get this stunning bottle.
Gift cards, but the right way
Gift cards can be tricky gifts. Yes, they give the receiver the freedom of choice, but at the same time they can appear an easy and inconsiderate choice. Most people do not “just” want a gift, they want to be seen and feel that the giver took time and effort into finding the right gift for them.
So giving a gift card in a way that is memorable and well received is all about how you present it. Always add a beautifully presented extra note or card about why you chose this gift card for them. The more personal you can make it, the better.
Here are some inspiration:
I wish all your dreams come true, even the hot ones. So here is my contribution to your satisfaction
or
I wanted to give you something that creates memorable, climactic experiences, while you have the freedom to choose whatever feels the best for the task for you
or
Your filthy mind deserves the greatest toys, choose whatever you feel like you want to play with
or
I wanted this gift to be about You. Let Your desire speak and get whatever You want.